Post by MyTrixRnot4kids on Nov 19, 2013 9:48:21 GMT -5
Q. Third Wheel Brother: My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. The first year of our relationship, we lived with his brother. Eventually, our relationship grew strained because we were NEVER alone. His brother ended up moving out after all three of us had a huge fight where a lot of mean things were said. Secretly, I was glad he moved out because I had finally lost my third wheel. The problem is that since moving out, I have come to resent him every time he comes over to visit. My boyfriend and I work opposite schedules and we see each other one day a week. Conveniently his brother wants to come over on that day, and they play video games and watch football. I've gotten so grumpy about it that I just hide in the bedroom. I have attempted to express my concerns to my boyfriend, but he thinks I hate his brother. How can I get some quality time?
A: I agree it's time to end having a third wheel, so I suggest you find your own other living arrangements as soon as possible. Your boyfriend was fine with having you bunk with him and his ever-hovering brother. Now you and your boyfriend only see each other one day a week, a day that's devoted to hanging out with bro. It sounds to me as if you're someone who helps pay the rent, and is available for sex, but you don't have the basis for an intimate relationship. When you try to express your concerns about this state of affairs, your boyfriend says you hate his brother. I think it's fine that you do, but I don't see any reason for liking your boyfriend very much, either.
I'm not much into health food.... I am into champagne... I've got to meet you by tomorrow noon, and cut through all this red tape.. at a bar called O'Malley's, where we'll plan, our escape!
The story is bad from one side but it is quite important from the other because nowadays many young couples are trying to start living together just because they want and they are not thinking about the other people who are living around. They are not thinking about all possible problems that may occur in their relationships because of this factor. I have also one interesting story in my life. Once. when I was young, I was living with my friend, we were sharing the room. One day when I was at the University he decided to call the girl to make him a tantra massage. And I entered at the moment when both of them were naked... After that moment I understood that if you are in a couple, you should live separately from your friends and family (at least to avoid such kind of a situations)
Post by RicardoMilos1 on Apr 29, 2019 15:31:50 GMT -5
I don`t thin that cannabis is a really big reason to breakup with our lover. If he is using bluebird botanicals cbd for example it is really good for his mental health and he may easy deal with stress and any depression. Also, it is good way to relax and do not swear with each other:D